When your children desire to talk to you and share their problems with you, stop everything and listen to them.
Life ripped me off from my childhood and I started catering for my affairs at a very young age.
I had parents who only cared about their respective careers and never cared to hear me out or spend time with me.
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During the school open days, they never came and each time I told my dad about it, he always said I should inform my mom, while my mom will redirect me back to my dad.
Kids in school always laughed at me, some said I didn’t have parents and always assumed that the old nanny who always brought me to school was my mom.
I never had anyone to talk to or seek advice from; I lived like an orphan and became the architect of my life.
Many times, I wanted to make things right it never worked. At some points, I felt I was unwanted and they never planned to have me.
I made the worst mistakes and learned a lot of lessons from them and I knew that I have to be a better parent.
I didn’t want my kids to make the same mistakes I made, in high school, I couldn’t get into college because I didn’t know what to do with my life either. I stayed at home for years trying to figure it out.
I will be a mother that will always place her family above everything else.