We live in a world, wherein ever tussle or issue everyone plays the rule of a victim. I have seen people actually offend their partner and still sit down on the fall crying and playing the role of the victim.
The truth remains that we as human, always hate to agree that we are at fault in any issue. Due to this fact, we all play the easy role of the victim because it takes a lot to agree that you are the one who is wrong.
I have seen ladies that are abusive to their partner, always raining curses and punches on their husband pushing their partner to the wall and expecting them to remain absolutely calm.
Most times these men keep calm and absorb all the abuse and still move on with their daily life with ease but we all know, that as robots have a breaking point so those everyone on earth.
So when they keep getting pushed till they pass their breaking point and lose control over their normal self and bring up their ugly side. When this happens and the man actually hits or abuses his wife.
We would see the same woman who actually was the reason why her partner brought up that ugly side of him play the role of the victim. She would give her own side of the story without saying a word about the days she was the one abusing the man.
I have learned it is in the nature of man to push his fellow man to the limit and still play the victim when it happens.