It took a long time to understand what it means to forgive someone. I always wondered how I could forgive someone who chose to hurt me. But after a lot of soul searching, I realized that forgiveness isn’t about accepting or excusing their behavior; it’s about letting it go and preventing their behavior from destroying my heart.
Forgiveness isn’t just a word we say to feel better, or to lessen the burden on the hearts of people who have wronged us or made us feel less. Forgiveness comes from the heart, and it’s a better way of not letting people’s errors, flaws, and mistakes get into our hearts.
You shouldn’t let someone’s mistakes define you or let hurt take over your heart and reasoning.
We all have been through a lot, we have been hurt by people who we trusted and never for once doubted their loyalty. People we cherished have left scars on our hearts, but we shouldn’t let that define us or how we live our life.
Forgiveness should be something we offer because of yourself; you shouldn’t go around bearing grudges and the weight of other people’s actions and words. It will be a threat to your peace of mind and mental health.
Let it all go, forgive because you are strong and people’s words shouldn’t define you or change the sweet soul you have always been.
You should let go of those things that hurt you or else it keeps hunting you forever. Forgive before hurt and pains eat deep into your heart.