In November 2022, a Reddit user posted a troubling story on the “Off My Chest” forum. She had been with her fiancé, Ryan, for six years, and they had been engaged for eight months. She had no idea her wedding plans would fall apart in an unexpected way.
As they planned the wedding, Ryan suggested she shouldn’t wear a white dress. She initially thought it was due to Ryan’s artistic side and didn’t worry about it. But this was just the start of a surprising turn of events.
Two weeks before the wedding, she bought a white dress and was excited about it. When she told Ryan, he got annoyed and insisted on seeing the dress. She wanted it to be a surprise, but this only made him more upset.
When she finally revealed that her dress was white, Ryan’s angry reaction stunned her. He insisted brides should only wear white if they were “pure” and preferred her to wear a red dress. This revelation made her question their relationship.
Ryan tried to get his mother to convince her, but she sided with the woman, which caused more tension. Arguments about the dress’s symbolism grew heated. Ryan’s mother even suggested he should wear red if he wasn’t a virgin. Emotions were high, and Ryan ended up in tears but still believed that wearing white would deceive their guests.
The whole situation shattered the woman’s trust in her relationship with Ryan. She was disgusted by his actions and seriously reconsidered their future together. What troubled her more was Ryan’s focus on her past, especially her loss of virginity before they met. This revelation weighed heavily on her, and she looked for understanding from others.
In a later update, the woman went on her first date in six years after ending the engagement. Unsure of what to wear, she asked the Reddit community for advice. Many suggested she wear red, showing their support for her moving on.
Now, the question is: Do you agree with her decision to end the engagement? It’s a tough choice, but everyone deserves someone who respects and accepts them. Considering that, her decision to leave Ryan seems justified.
I think she did the correct thing by leaving. His actions were bad! Im surprised he even wanted to marry her with his disrespectful attitude. Let him find his virgin & she can find a nice quality man.
She should not wear white or red. A creamy ivory would be fine, but pure white is for a virgin.